Life is A Beautiful Struggle

Wow, I know this post is really weak, but they’re QUOTES! Enjoy! (:

One.

 I’ve learned that no matter how much I care, people are jerks. I’ve learned that it takes years to build up trust, and it only takes suspicion- not proof- to destroy it. I’ve learned that you shouldn’t compare yourselves to others; they’re more screwed up than you think. I’ve learned that the people you care the most about in life are taken from you too soon and all the less important ones never go away.

Two.

Take chances. Tell the truth. Date somebody totally wrong for you. Say no. Spend all your cash. Fall in love. Get to know someone random. Be random. Say “I love you.” Sing out loud. Laugh at a stupid joke. Cry. Get revenge. Apologize. Tell someone how much they mean to you. Tell the jerk how you feel. Let someone know what they’re missing. Laugh until your stomach hurts. Life your life. <3

          

Three.

Don’t let the past and useless details choke your existence.

Four.

Would I rather be feared or loved? Easy: both. I want people afraid of how much they love me.

         

Five.

You’re going to come across people in your life that will say all the right words at all the right times. But in the end, it’s their actions that you should judge them by. It’s actions that matter. Not words.

          

Six.

That’s the problem with us. We’re both stubborn asses and always want to get our way. We both hate the be wrong and we love to be right. But that’s the thing about love. No matter what happens, we always come back for each other, one more time.

                                                                               -The Notebook

      

Seven.

I won’t ask for you to promise me forever. I won’t ask you to treat me as if I’m a princess, but I’ll ask you to promise me that you’d remember me forever, that I’ll be somewhere in your heart no matter how long time goes by, that even if you moved on, we won’t be strangers.That you’d give us another chance. If that day you have no one, I won’t be waiting for you.

        

Eight.

People break promises they make, But maybe one day, out of luck, one person out of the six billion would keep his promise, the promise that you were reluctant of believing, of setting your heart on it. But one day, you might find yourself in a white dress, besides you is that one person in his tux. Before you know it, you are saying “Always & Forever, I do.”

                             

Nine.

Fall in love with someone that deserves your heart; not someone who plays with it.

       

Ten.

You can close your eyes to the things you don’t want to see, but you can’t close your heart to the things you don’t want to feel.

       

Eleven.

Be careful in letting go of the things you thought are nothing. Because maybe someday, you’ll realize that the one you gave away, was the very thing you were wishing for to stay.

       

Twelve.

Fall in love, stay in love. It’ll decide everything. What you are in love with, what seizes your imagination, it will affect everything. It’ll decide when you will get out of bed in the morning, what you will do with your evenings, how you will spend your weekends, what you read, what you know, what breaks your heart, and what amazes you with joy and gratitude.

                  

Thirteen.

Fixing someone’s broken heart is much more like treating a sickness. No matter how hard you try, if you’re not the medicine, you can never cure the pain.

                          

Fourteen.

There is no fear in love; perfect love casts away fear…. 1 John 4:18

              

Fifteen.

I’m ready to go, move on, and be happy, but there’s this little shred of “maybe he’ll turn around and tell me he wants me tomorrow.”

      

Sixteen.

Somewhere, there’s someone that dreams of your smile & finds in your presence that life is worthwhile. So when you are lonely, remember that it’s true. Somebody, somewhere is thinking about you.

       

Seventeen.

Don’t base your decisions on your the advice of the people who don’t have to deal with the results.

                    

Eighteen.

You can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks or even months over-analyzing a situation; just trying to put all of the pieces together. Justifying what could’ve, would’ve happened…or you can just leave the pieces on the floor and move on.

       

Nineteen.

There’s a point in life when you get tired of chasing everyone and trying to fix everything, but it’s not giving up. It’s realizing that you don’t need certain people and their crap.

      

Twenty.

Life is a roller coaster. You can either scream every time you hit a bump or you can throw your hands up in the air and enjoy it.